10 Things to Tell Your Partner That Will Make Them Fall In Love Again

When you first fall in love, everything is bliss. But relationships aren’t just perpetual rainbows, butterflies, and happy feelings. If you and your partner aren’t putting an effort into keeping the sparks ignited and the love alive, the whole relationship could stagnate into an unsatisfying stalemate.

Even with a busy schedule, all it takes is a little extra effort and a few kind words to make your partner fall in love with you all over again. Showering your special someone with compliments and considerate phrases will surely give your relationship a boost.

HERE ARE 10 THINGS TO TELL YOUR PARTNER THAT WILL MAKE THEM FALL IN LOVE AGAIN

1.    “YOU’RE SO GOOD AT…”

Compliments seem like sweet nothings, but they can actually be very, very effective. Just taking a little time out to tell your partner that they’re doing great work can be incredibly rewarding for them. You’re acknowledging their efforts and their hard work!

You can also use these words to bolster your partner’s confidence. If there’s something you know your partner feels insecure about, say something nice to them.

For example, if your partner thinks they’re a bad cook and you like the meals they make, say so! Or tell them they’re improving when they do well. You get to support them, and they might just fall in love all over again.

Studies have even shown that compliments cause people to perform better at tasks. This means telling your partner they do a great job at an activity means they’ll return even better, more positive results the next time they do that activity!

2.    “WE’RE IN THIS TOGETHER.”

Couples will go through all sorts of ups and downs in their lives. When you’re in it for the long run, the occasional bad time is sure to pass.

There may have been a death in your partner’s family. They might become seriously ill. They might face financial troubles, or lose a job. Don’t let them forget, through it all, that you love them and are cheering them on.

When you stand side by side with your partner and tell them you’re in this with them, they understand that you will stick by their side even during the worst of times. And if that won’t make someone fall in love again, what will?

3.    “THANK YOU FOR…”

Positive reinforcement is often all two parties need to encourage the other to do somewhat less enjoyable tasks.

• Did your partner do the dishes?
• Maybe they took out the trash?
• Or maybe they’ve been working really hard to understand what you need when you’re stressed out?

All these efforts may seem little, but these are significant actions performed by a partner. So don’t forget to thank them! Be specific aboutwhy you’re grateful. Thank them for doing the laundry. Tell them you appreciate that they took time to understand your anger and remain gracious. Thank them for buying flowers.

Most of all, don’t neglect to make your partner feel appreciated. Assure them that you notice what they do and value their presence in your life!

4.    “YOU LOOK AMAZING!”