A lot of men are like this. In fact, a vast majority of men live for the thrill of the chase. And once they get something that they’ve always wanted, they get bored. And this might be the case with the two of you. maybe he loves the challenge of having to have a relationship with someone outside of the marriage. Maybe he’s bored of having already gotten you.
4. He likes women who are positive and happy.
Not to say that you’re not allowed to be sad in your relationship from time to time; but it’s a huge factor. All of that negative energy can have very bad impacts on him as a person. He might not like the negative relationship environment and so he will force himself to seek happiness and positivity in other women instead.
5. He wants something new to break the monotony.
Yes, there is such a thing as having TOO MUCH stability in a relationship. He might be a drama queen on the inside and he hates the fact that your marriage is too safe and easy. He might start looking for affairs just to shake things up a little bit; to add more excitement into your lives.
6. He isn’t happy with you.
Maybe he thinks he just made a mistake. It happens. Perhaps the marriage has failed to meet his expectations and he doesn’t feel fulfilled at all. Maybe he’s just trying to make the most out of an unfortunate situation by staying married to you; but seeking love and meaning elsewhere.
7. He feels undervalued and underappreciated in the marriage.
Perhaps you aren’t giving him the gratitude and appreciation that he needs to feel secure in your marriage; and as a result, he’s going to look for it in someone else. And it’s unfortunate if he happens to find a woman who is willing to give him those things.
